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Posted: 06 March 2010 07:47 PM   [ Ignore ]  
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I know of no other way than to just ask….here goes!

I do NOT and CANNOT drink alcohol.  Will this be an issue at any time during my degrees IF I am deemed a worthy candidate?  I have no issue whatever with anyone else drinking, but for me, I cannot…allergic to the stuff.
I don’t want to ruin or lessen the journey by asking but I don’t want to find out it is part of a ritual if you know where I am going without actually going!  Thanks, JC

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Posted: 06 March 2010 08:07 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 1 ]  
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That will be no problem. Alcohol plays no role what so ever in Freemasonry. I do believe alcohol is not allowed in most lodges. I am sure that there are a few of us enjoy a beverage or two but it is not part of any lodge work what so ever.

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Posted: 06 March 2010 08:26 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 2 ]  
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Thanks Steve…like I said, I don’t want to spoil the experience, but I thought I should ask…thankfully nothing has been revealed…now I wait…!

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Posted: 07 March 2010 12:29 AM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 3 ]  
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Hmm… a knightly virtue caused by allergic reaction. If only… lol.

I wish I were allergic to many things. That’s either REALLY bad luck, or REALLY good luck. Either way, I’d embrace it.

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Posted: 07 March 2010 07:58 AM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 4 ]  
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Absolutely no problem at all. In the USA, nearly all lodges are “dry”, no alcohol at all. Alcohol plays no part at all, in the masonic experience. However, in many overseas lodges, alcoholic beverages are served during refreshement period. If you choose to abstain, it is perfectly permissible.

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Posted: 07 March 2010 09:02 AM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 5 ]  
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JC, alcohol is a big NO-NO in a Masonic lodge.  My lodge has diet soda and coffee for refreshments after the meetings, initation ceremonies, etc…  No alcohol whatsoever.

There is a big difference between a Masonic lodge and a Moose lodge ($1.95 pitchers of beer, from what I heard) or any other men’s fraternity.

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Posted: 07 March 2010 10:35 AM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 6 ]  
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As the Brethren have indicated, many if not most, American Lodges are dry. There seems to be as many opinions about why this is the case as there are Masons holding the opinions. One interesting thing that you will find in the opening and closing rituals of many American Lodges is the reference to the duties of a certain officer of the Lodge. In his charge, he is told that he is to assure that refreshment does not give way to excess. Since many (again if not most) American Lodges are dry, this would seem to be an anachronism and a remnant of an earlier time when water was often undrinkable and drinks like rum, ale, beer, wine and brandy were substituted.

Of course there seems to be very little to prevent my beloved Brethren from converting refreshement to excess when it comes to chilly, ham sandwiches and chocolate pie.

I hope you’ve found these postings valuable and that they help you decide on whether to pursue life as a Freemason. Im new to this forum, but not totally new to Masonry. Please feel free to PM me here if you would like to discuss Masonry, you entry into or other relevent topics.

Best of luck to you and may you travel softly.

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Posted: 07 March 2010 02:44 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 7 ]  
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Thanks to all that have replied.  You have helped immensely. JC

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Posted: 07 March 2010 07:56 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 8 ]  
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Masonic Lodges occasionally come in for criticism due to the fact that originally they almost invariably met in taverns. In fact, modern Freemasonry started at the first Grand Lodge meeting on June 24, 1717, at the Goose and Gridiron Tavern in London. In the colonies, lodges met in taverns. There were two perfectly good reasons for this: 1) as noted in another post, the water in towns and cities usually wasn’t fit to drink; everyone drank beer or wine, and spirits were much used. A lodge meeting was invariably followed by a refreshment hour, or often preceded by a dinner, and of course alcoholic beverages were served. 2) Lodges met in taverns because there were no masonic temples in those days, nor did lodges own their own buildings. The only place with a large room to rent for a meeting, ball, soiree or other function was a tavern. Such rooms were upstairs from the tavern itself, and the tavern also provided catering service for dinner or refreshments. The location of the tavern’s meeting room is the reason why in many, if not most, lodge buildings the lodge room is on the second floor, the dining room on the ground floor.

During the 19th century, when most lodges started building their own facility, or in cities where a Temple might be built for several lodges plus York Rite bodies, they then took care of their own catering. Coupled with the rise of the Temperance movement starting in mid-19th century, lodges started to forbid alcohol in their buildings, so that in the latter part of the century up to quite recently, and still to this day in many jurisdictions, all lodge buildings were or are strictly dry. About 10 years ago, relaxations in this rule started to occur. In Maryland, it is now lawful for a lodge (or other masonic body) to have alcohol in the building at a lodge function, but there are certain strict rules. A majority of the members present at a stated meeting must approve the serving of alcohol, and a choice of non-alcoholic beverages must always be provided for those who don’t drink alcohol.

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Posted: 07 March 2010 08:03 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 9 ]  
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Again…thanks men!  The question was more of a case of “Is it part of ceremony or initiation to drink wine”...along those lines…again, if I am deemed worthy, I do not want to diminish the experience by “finding” things out before hand….I just can’t drink myself…don’t care who does, just as long as it isn’t me.  Thanks!

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