Dear Brother,
This is an excellent question and I’m glad you asked it. There is, of course, no answer that applies to everyone.
In my case, many, in fact probably most, of the past masters of my lodge and the brothers I was in line with were active members of the York Rite. They did not press me to join right away, but I knew they were hoping I would. Also, my father and grandfather were zealous members of the Scottish Rite and I knew my father wanted very much for me to join so I could work with him.
Since the SR valley where my father belonged confers the degrees in the reunion style for 2 days twice a year, that wasn’t a big deal, so I joined there at the next reunion after I was raised. I have enjoyed it very much for over 40 years now and I’m still active.
The York Rite presents a different set of choices. As you may know, it consists of the Royal Arch Chapter, the Council of Royal & Select Masters, and the Commandery of Knights Templar, which is the order (in most jurisdictions) in which you progress. It is not necessary to join all three at the same time, or ever. You can join the Chapter and stop there; this used to be quite common, but rare nowadays. You can join the other two at any time after being exalted to the Royal Arch. You can join them in different localities, if that is convenient.
In my case, I decided to wait until I became W. Master and finished my term. I joined the Chapter and Council a year or two after leaving the East, but did not join the Commandery. I got in line in the Council but didn’t do anything in the Chapter. After serving as Ill. Master of the Council, I then got in line in Chapter and became High Priest. Several years after that, I finally decided to go for the Commandery and after several years became Commander (and ended up serving in that chair 8 years). Over the years, I have found working in the York Rite to be the most satisfying and enjoyable part of my Masonic activities.
So, to sum up: from what you said in your posting, I suspect that you would probably do best to wait a bit until you have had a chance to enjoy the “blue” lodge for a while and maybe to give you more time to serve in the officer line and maybe as WM. But by all means, keep the YR in mind. I think you will enjoy it very much.
And one last piece of advice to you and anyone thinking of joining the York Rite: DON’T GO IN A ONE-DAY OR ACCELERATED CLASS !! One of the great features of the YR, as contrasted to the AASR, is that you progress through the degrees one at a time (maybe two in the case of the shorter ones) and in a personal way, the way you receive the degrees in the Lodge, and you actually participate in them, not just sit and watch them. Also, there is too much content to take in at a single go. Imagine receiving the 3 lodge degrees in one day (shudder). I know it’s done at some times in some places, but it’s hard to imagine what anyone gets out of it.
Best wishes on your being raised—it will be one of the great experiences of your life. And good luck in your masonic life.