Members of the Forum
Brother Ron makes a good point. Every country, every state, every district, and every Lodge will have differences in the process.
But everyone should know that Membership in this Fraternity starts with that Knock, but it is not an open door. Freemasonry is becoming more and more about quality, not quantity. We are proud of our Fraternity. We don’t want it diluted with those who don’t care, or someone who says they will do something and doesn’t.
Not every applicant will get in. Not every application is accepted. Not everyone is voted on. And some that are voted on do not get in.
This is not to discourage anyone. Once it comes down to a vote, the blackball is rare. But before that it is not uncommon to be told that your petition will not go forward. It happens much more than .00001 :), that members of a Lodge will feel an applicant is not right for their Lodge. I find this most often happens with “know it alls,” arrogant men, those who just talk too much, individuals who are just too pushy, or those transparent individuals who are looking for material gain out of the Fraternity. It especially happens to those who think they can “buy” their way in with their wealth or fame. As we have said many times, Greatness is not about that, but about a Man’s character, his values, his integrity—his actions.
And I’ve said this before many times. If people don’t want to be around you outside the Lodge, what makes you think Freemasons are going to be any different?
My point is. Even after you put in a petition, if you really want to become a Mason, be humble. Be sharp. It might even help to remember names. Listen a lot. Remember what you hear. Be on time. Read a little Ben Franklin, and emulate him. And let that Secretary know that you are committed to helping his Lodge in any way that you can.
Very few of those guys get turned away at the door.
Bob Heruska
Boston, MA