Brian,
You must have patience. You also must realize that Freemasonry is a voluntary organization. So sometimes things move slowly in Freemasonry, all in its own time.
Like Brother Robert said the usual order of things is a man submits his petition, that petition is read in open Lodge, the Master will refer the petitioner to an Investigating Committee (which may not be a standing committed but adhoc). So after the meeting the Master may approach a Brother and ask him if he’ll chair the committee for your petition and arrange to meet you with 2 other Brothers.
Depending on this person work and personal schedule it can take some time to give you a call and set up a date and time for the Investigation committee to meet with you.
After the meeting they will converse briefly among themselves after they leave you and give you a thumbs up (or thumbs down). This report will be read at the next stated communication after the Investigation (usually). if it is the Master usually calls for a ballot on your petition. Typically if the IC give you the thumbs up, the vote is favorable as well.
If you are accepted (voted yes to become a member) in my jurisdiction the Secretary will send you a letter with date and times for you to be at the Lodge to begin your degrees.
You must learn to restrain those passions, soon enough I think.
Best of Luck and let us know when your scheduled for the degrees.