Am the teenager who is studying about freemasonry and interested in joining, well the good news is i got a man who is a member but am scared to ask him for membership,so my question here is WILL HE HELP ME TO JOIN WITHOUT MY PARENTS TO KNOW ABOUT IT?
The priorities of a Mason should be his faith and family, his vocation, and a distant third, Masonry. If your family doesn’t approve of your membership then you simply should not join.
A brother in my lodge was Raised (became a Master Mason) in my lodge. He later found out that his mother had a strong objection he did the right thing and left the lodge. Later, His mother noticed a Masonic ring worn by her new Minister. After heartfelt discussions where the Minister explained there was no conflict between his Faith and the Fraternity, the mother relented and allowed the brother to return to the lodge. We are glad to have him back and grateful to our brother the minister.
Perhaps your family should meet with a Mason they can trust and respect before you attempt to join us.