Hi i m from the netherlands and iam intersted to become a member and is there someone that can explane what free masonry exactly is and how i can become member and what the free masons expect from me when i want to be a member?

Mohammed, The Grand Lodge of Holland has an excellent Masonic Cultural Center. Each World jurisdiction has its unique resources for introduction to masonry. Their website http://www.vrijmetselarij.nl/
offers a contact area and you might consider making a call. this forum can provide you with many of the basic questions to ask, Good luck. - Ron Doucette