Hi, Timothy-
Thank you for visiting Ask a Freemason LIVE and for your interest in Freemasonry. You have certainly come to the right place to learn more. As the name of the site implies, we believe that connecting with Freemasons is the best way to answer your questions and get the information you need. Although doing it electronically is a good place to start, nothing can replace having a conversation in person. You are fortunate that there is a lodge building in Stoughton. Rising Star Lodge meets there. Mr. Gordon B. Chisholm is their Secretary and a good resource. He can be reached at .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address). I would encourage you to contact him and let him know of you interest; I know he would welcome your inquiry. Also, in September you will begin hearing our ads again as we create awareness for our next Open House which will be held on Saturday, October 16th.
To try and address some of your specific questions, I don’t know if you have an opportunity to visit the FAQs, but they might be able to answer some of your more general questions, http://www.askafreemason.org/topten/index.htm.
As for the question of why we became a Masons, that is generally different for everyone. I joined because my father was an active Mason. I knew that both of my grandfathers were also Masons. At the time I did not know too much about the fraternity, but I figured that if it was good enough for them I should at least check it out. At the very least I thought it would be a meaningful way for my father and I to do something together. It has turned out to be that and so much more.
I occasionally wonder if I would have found my was to Freemasonry if it had not been for my father. I am a fairly active, busy person and I suspect that I would think that I didn’t have time for it. I commend you on showing the initiative to check it out for yourself.
Good luck doing your research. Hope you enjoy the journey.
-Robert